The most deteriorating acts
to be ever quoted in the Hindu Mythology that I remember of are the Draupadi’s
Vastraharan and Sita’s agneepariksha! Both an equally demeaning and insulting
act that brought utter shame to the society!
In compliance of their
so called “dharm”, the men found it convenient to shift their sufferings, pain,
and torture quite conveniently to their female counterparts. However, it is
said that the mistakes of the history are something the society should learn
from and thereby in whatsoever endeavour not repeat the same!
What is happening today
in and around us is completely opposite! We seek to find immense pleasure in
repeating these filthy practices time and again! The then vastraharan and
agneepariksha are today rapes, harassment, domestic violence, etc.! Just like
the courtiers of Hastinapur stood in silence as they watched the plight of
draupadi and just as King Rama believed the “dhobi” who accused Sita; we as
society continue to do that!
A lot has been spoken
in this regard! Debates and discussions have been aired on all forms of media!
The dramatic candle light marches, social media protests have all had their
share of cake. But what has been ignored is the collective social responsibility
our society has towards its female counterparts! Strict laws, regulations,
quick redressal are just few topics that can help to combat these issues.
On a larger scale, the
mentality of objectifying a woman needs to change. Not to forget, I, we, you
all form a part of this so called society.
If you ask me, Draupadi
and Sita are still alive today! When a woman’s intimate life is being commented
and criticized I recollect the incidence of Mahabharta when draupadi was commented on her
character as she shared her marriage with 5 men.
There are few acts
which do not contribute to crime, but they do contribute to lowering the dignity
of a woman. Examples: Filthy comments on western dresses, verbal torcher by the
in laws, the educational and social restrictions and so on. You name it and you
have it!
I am not trying
to suggest or advocate solutions! All I am saying is let woman of this century
not replicate our mythological characters in regard to the plight they faced ! It
is time we mean the term “civil society” by our civilized ways and behaviours.
P.S: I do not intend to harm any religious practices
and sentiments. All views and opinions expressed hereby are solely intended to address
women related problems
