The other day i was watching Miss India Pageant and in the Q & A round the contestant was asked,"Do you think the dress code that is imposed upon by the Colleges/Institutions/Government on girls is justified?" Choosing her words carefully she answered, " no, i don't think that the burden of lack in moral policy of the government should be borne by any of us" and i was pretty much smiling at that answer for somewhere i believed it too.
A lot has been spoken on women empowerment and my thoughts in this process shall play the role of an atom in particular element ; .tiny and similar to the remaining atoms! I have no intentions in re-writing the entire philosophy as till date it must be by-heart to each individual.,blame the hypothecated media or the recent happenings!
Whenever the topic "woman" or related thesis occurred in the syllabus i scored an "O" without studying much about it..coz "ratta maar" has been the approach since the subject of social studies was introduced to me! In the realm,i seem to have got used to all this rubbish
These topics remain a tea-time time pass buzz on whatsapp or facebook even for the youth! I often wonder how many parents ask boys the question "where were u the whole nyt,what were u doing?";rather how many are restricted,but when it comes to girls we know the "saatchya aat gharat" rule! I don't blame the elders but the kind of image our society has convicted on our minds; not to forget I,U, and all form this so called society!
I have quite noticed the bias attitude of other women towards a Divorcee,Widow or the one that unshackles the chains of stupid limits imposed on us and lives her dreams...and mind you this kind of jealousy exists among each of us..why blame the men..they still have a reason to taunt- the gender difference!
When we...the so called modern 21st century girls spend time talking such sh*t about those fermion's who have excelled in their particular job...why blame the orthodox and biased balcony and why be a loud mouth about "woman empowerment" itself...
WE are the ones supporting and advocating the technological and fashion advancements from the west, then why not stand for their free relation practises too! Why the hell a gal who has had a recent break up/divorce is looked upon with criminal eyes when steps out to have fun, when she tries spending time with a Good company of friends?? Better was the direct torcher of the parda,sati,etc.
I stand for the above arguments not only against the men but also women! My thoughts at this particular moment may sound completely immature and bookish, but i have grown with the stories of Mastani,Savitribai Phule,JijaBai,Rani Laxmibai and my own mother who taught me to be independent,self-worthy and to stand for my thoughts!
I want this developing country to treat us equally...not greater,,i don't agree with SRK's WORD "ki aurton ko ageen hona chaiye"..let us leave that on individual talent and fair competition!
I hate it when I see girls around crying for broken nails,making reasons for not walking in high heels, and utilising their so called "feminism" for work benefit,rightly said as taking advantage of being a woman!
If u know u Cant walk with heels,don't wear them, if u know u cant do a particular thing,ask for help as a worthy individual and not on account of u being a "woman"
Lastly..be what u are...treat Yourself as beautiful instead of waiting for your prince Charles to do that..and suddenly everything will turn perfectly nice! Next time be careful when u walk lonely streets,keep calm,follow all those tips u've been getting,and if u see somebody in such try helping "wisely"..
With the colours of this Holli let us develop healthy thoughts and attitudes..be colourful..be happy..keep smiling.. & cheers to all the lovingly awesome woman i have met along
A lot has been spoken on women empowerment and my thoughts in this process shall play the role of an atom in particular element ; .tiny and similar to the remaining atoms! I have no intentions in re-writing the entire philosophy as till date it must be by-heart to each individual.,blame the hypothecated media or the recent happenings!
Whenever the topic "woman" or related thesis occurred in the syllabus i scored an "O" without studying much about it..coz "ratta maar" has been the approach since the subject of social studies was introduced to me! In the realm,i seem to have got used to all this rubbish
These topics remain a tea-time time pass buzz on whatsapp or facebook even for the youth! I often wonder how many parents ask boys the question "where were u the whole nyt,what were u doing?";rather how many are restricted,but when it comes to girls we know the "saatchya aat gharat" rule! I don't blame the elders but the kind of image our society has convicted on our minds; not to forget I,U, and all form this so called society!
I have quite noticed the bias attitude of other women towards a Divorcee,Widow or the one that unshackles the chains of stupid limits imposed on us and lives her dreams...and mind you this kind of jealousy exists among each of us..why blame the men..they still have a reason to taunt- the gender difference!
When we...the so called modern 21st century girls spend time talking such sh*t about those fermion's who have excelled in their particular job...why blame the orthodox and biased balcony and why be a loud mouth about "woman empowerment" itself...
WE are the ones supporting and advocating the technological and fashion advancements from the west, then why not stand for their free relation practises too! Why the hell a gal who has had a recent break up/divorce is looked upon with criminal eyes when steps out to have fun, when she tries spending time with a Good company of friends?? Better was the direct torcher of the parda,sati,etc.
I stand for the above arguments not only against the men but also women! My thoughts at this particular moment may sound completely immature and bookish, but i have grown with the stories of Mastani,Savitribai Phule,JijaBai,Rani Laxmibai and my own mother who taught me to be independent,self-worthy and to stand for my thoughts!
I want this developing country to treat us equally...not greater,,i don't agree with SRK's WORD "ki aurton ko ageen hona chaiye"..let us leave that on individual talent and fair competition!
I hate it when I see girls around crying for broken nails,making reasons for not walking in high heels, and utilising their so called "feminism" for work benefit,rightly said as taking advantage of being a woman!
If u know u Cant walk with heels,don't wear them, if u know u cant do a particular thing,ask for help as a worthy individual and not on account of u being a "woman"
Lastly..be what u are...treat Yourself as beautiful instead of waiting for your prince Charles to do that..and suddenly everything will turn perfectly nice! Next time be careful when u walk lonely streets,keep calm,follow all those tips u've been getting,and if u see somebody in such try helping "wisely"..
With the colours of this Holli let us develop healthy thoughts and attitudes..be colourful..be happy..keep smiling.. & cheers to all the lovingly awesome woman i have met along
